As I was putting our seven year old to bed the other night, we were trying to decide what CD he should listen to. He was pushing for something lively (a Piamenta Band disc), but I put on something a bit more mellow instead (Jonathan Rimbergâ€™s Kumzitz CD).
When it started playing my son said, â€œAbba, is this the guy who wasnâ€™t Jewish?â€
Puzzled I asked him what he meant. My son said, â€œYou know, the guy who didnâ€™t keep Torah and Mitzvos when he was a little boy, like you?â€
I explained to my son that the artist he was thinking of (Yitzchak Halevi) was born Jewish. He didnâ€™t become Jewish like Tzipporah and Yisro did (he had just learned about them a few weeks ago).
I told him that some people like me, just didnâ€™t grow up knowing about Hashem, his Torah, and never had a chance to go to a day school. To say that they were â€œnot Jewishâ€ isnâ€™t the appropriate term.
I then said that The appropriate term is Baal Teshuvah, someone who returns to Hashem and a life of Torah and Mitzvos. The concept wasn’t new to him, as he remembered when my wife and I were NCSY chapter advisors.
My son then said, “Abba, you’re a Baal Teshuva, right?”
I answered, “Yes.”
He then said, “Cool. So it’s, like, Elul and Tishrei for you the whole year, huh? That’s awesome.”
Impressed and moved by his observation, I could only reply, “It should be,” and I gave him a hug and said, “Shluff Gazunt” (good night in yiddish).