Based on some recent posts and comments on BT Martyrdom, it seems that many BTs get tremendous spiritual pleasure from blowing up familial relationships.
What are the reasons for this willingness to cut oneself off from their families with these acts?
a) They feel it’s comparable to giving up your life, which when appropriate is the ultimate Kiddush Hashem.
b) Their Rebbeim tell them it’s the right course of action and they rarely enter a question and answer dialog with their Rebbeim to probe/understand the reasoning behind a ruling.
c) Many families explicitly or implicitly reject a BTs life choices causing pain, which sets the stage for the act of familial martyrdom.
d) Other reasons