Vayishlach 5774-An installment in the series From the Waters of the Shiloah: Plumbing the Depths of the Izhbitzer School For series introductionÂ CLICK By Rabbi Dovid Schwartz-Mara Dâ€™Asra Cong Sfard of Midwood Â Yaakov remained alone, and a man wrestled with him until just before daybreak.
He had forgotten small flasks and [unwilling to squander them] returned [unaccompanied] for them.Â
But Esav said, “I have plenty, my brother; let what is yours remain yours.”, “Please no!â€ Yaakov said â€œIf indeed I have gained favor with you, then please accept my gift. Â After all, seeing your face is like seeing the face of the Divine, you have received me so favorably. Please accept my welcoming gift as it has been brought to you. Â Elokim has favored me [with it], and I have all [I need].” Yaakov thus prevailed upon him, and [at last] Esav took [it].
Yaakov was among those Tzadikim who â€œvalue their property more than their bodiesâ€(Chulin 91A).Â Â So much so that he found it unconscionable to let a few small flasks go to waste.Â Rav Leibeleh Eiger points out that his imploring Esav to accept his substantial gifts seems totally incompatible with his earlier behavior and attitude. Â Even had he been less frugal, the fact that the recipient was the wicked Esav should have curbed his generosity and apparent urgency to part with his own property.
â€œBut of the Tree of the Knowledge Joining Together of Good and Evil, do not eat of it; for on the day that you eat of it you will definitely die.’
– Bereshis 2: 17
The word Daâ€™as means joining together and becoming as one. Weâ€™ve learned that the Original Sin, ingesting of the fruit of the Tree of the Joining Together of Good and Evil resulted in the Yetzer HaRa became internalized and integrated into mans very being. When Adam and Chava became what they ate this had a universal cataclysmic effect as the mish-mash of good and evil spread throughout the macrocosm as well. The catastrophic result of the Original Sin is that on both a human and a cosmic level there is no longer any unadulterated good or any unmitigated evil.
To resolve Yaakovâ€™s inconsistencies Rav Leibeleh applies and expands this concept. He maintains that the physical manifestation of mans intrinsic evil is the foreskin. The bris milah-covenant of circumcision is intended to separate this congenital admixture of evil.Â No one considers circumcision an act of maiming nor circumcised people to be amputees. On the contrary; the preamble to this covenant is â€œWalk before me and become perfect!â€ (Bereshis 17:1). One achieves perfection through excision of the superfluous. Circumcision is addition through subtraction.
Milah serves as the template for free-will endowed human beings to continue exercising their will in making birurim-refinements that sift the evil away from the good and expunge it. When HaShem bestows munificence and kedushah-holiness on deserving individuals that kedushah contains traces of evil as well.Â It is the recipientsâ€™ mission and challenge to sift away and remove these smatterings of evil.Â The Divine Wisdom determines the quality and quantity of evil that is in the mix, customizing the â€œcompoundâ€ that requires refining so that it is appropriate to the soul tasked with the refining.
In our patriarchâ€™s case, the vast stream of benevolence and kedushah overflowing from HaShem to Yaakov was adulterated by the pollutants of Esavâ€™s evil. But until Yaakov isolated and detached the portions belonging to Esav that heâ€™d received, he himself was as imperfect and spiritually maimed as one who is uncircumcised.Â While Yaakov was, indeed, very parsimonious and possessive of that which belonged to him, he was eager to divest himself of all that belonged to Esav. This explains why he literally begged Esav to accept his gift. Yaakov was not giving away, he was giving back.
This helps explain the odd grammatical construct of pasuk 11; â€œPlease accept my welcoming gift as it has been brought to youâ€ is in the past tense. The pasuk would have been less stilted had it read: â€œPlease accept my welcoming gift that I bring to you/ that I am giving youâ€. Subtextually Yaakov is telling Esav â€œDonâ€™t imagine for a moment that Iâ€™m giving up anything (good/holy) that is actually mine. Iâ€™m merely transferring something that belonged to you from long ago. It had been brought to you in the past as an extraneous, superfluous add-on of evil at the time that HaShemâ€™s shefa-overflow of benevolence came to me (×›×™ ×—× × ×™ ××œ×•×§×™×). The welcoming gift that I present to you now was always meant to be yours.Â Â On the contrary, you must take back what was always your portion from me so that what remains with me will be refined, unadulterated holiness. I must add to myself, perfect myself through this subtraction. Giving you this gift is another iteration of cutting away my foreskin.â€
The very act of urging, pleading, nagging, almost harassing, Esav to accept the gift, was out of character for Yaakov.Â While non-violent, it resonated of the type of compulsion and intimidation we normally associate with Esav, he to whom â€œthe armsâ€ belong, who lives by his sword and who engages in tyrannical imperialism. The technique of this gift-giving, actually divestiture, was itself, a part of the birur. â€œPrevailing-uponâ€ his brother, Yaakov used his persistence as body language to tell Esav â€œTake your own haftzarah-your compelling, prevailing-upon away from me. ×•×™×¤×¦×¨ ×‘×•…×•×™×§×—
On that day Esav returned on his way to Seir. Yaakov journeyed to Sukkoth.Â There, he built himself a house, and made shelters for his livestock. He therefore named the place Sukkoth.Â [Shelters]
– Bereshis 33: 16-17
The Torahâ€™s narrative progresses from the episode of the â€œgiftâ€ to Esav to the final separation of the two brothers from one another. Rav Leibeleh concludes that this segue is as seamless and reasonable as the irreversible separation of the foreskin from the perfected body.