Our friend Phil sent in the following question:
In my inlaws’ apartment complex, I often pass by the door of some college students. They’re Jewish, but not observant. On the door, there is a mezuzah on the left side. (If not observant, then at least they’re ‘proud’, right?) I was thinking that maybe this could be a kiruv opportunity. I’d like to secretly slide a letter under their door that informs them of the correct mezuzah placement. I suspect that I should hint that that’s not the only reason why I wrote them.
Obviously, I want to avoid any hint of judgmentalism, here’s-my-unsolicited-advice-ism, and preachiness. The letter should be very lighthearted and witty (rhyming couplets, perhaps?), or at least sensitively written, fostering good-will. I also think I should include my name, number, and email, and tell them I’m related to their neighbors, whom they know a little.
Unfortunately, I’m not the most creative of writers, and would love to see some BeyondBT readers take a stab at it. OR: If you think that the only advice taken is the advice sought, and you think I should just forget the whole thing, please say so.
Why a letter and why not knock on their door? It all comes down to my getting tongue tied in some sensitive situations.